NCIS star Wilmer Valderrama has built a reputation as a heroic TV cop, but his controversial past continues to haunt him. Known for sharing intimate details about his famous exes, the 44-year-old actor now appears determined to redefine himself as a loving partner, devoted father, and real-life role model.
Valderrama, who plays a lead role on CBS’s hit show NCIS, has drawn criticism for his past behavior, particularly his infamous 2006 interview on The Howard Stern Show. During the interview, Valderrama openly discussed his relationships with high-profile stars, sharing explicit details that many found disrespectful and inappropriate.
A Scandalous Past Comes to Light
In the interview, Valderrama revealed intimate stories about celebrities he dated, including Mandy Moore, Ashlee Simpson, Lindsay Lohan, and Jennifer Love Hewitt. He claimed to have taken Moore’s virginity—a statement Moore later dismissed as untrue, though she insisted they remain friends. He also described Simpson as “loud” in bed and rated Hewitt an eight out of ten, sparking public outrage.
Valderrama even discussed personal details about Lohan’s body and claimed he avoided Paris Hilton because he didn’t want to “do things that had already been done.” The remarks left a lasting stain on his image, with many of his exes and their fans branding him a “love rat” for betraying their trust.
A Fresh Chapter as a Family Man
Fast-forward to today, and Valderrama’s life has taken a dramatic turn. Since 2020, the actor has been engaged to Amanda Pacheco, a 32-year-old model and the mother of his 3-year-old daughter, Nakano. Friends say Valderrama is committed to his family and has embraced his role as a devoted partner and parent.
“He’s in a serious relationship with a woman he loves, a devoted dad, and he’s doing good stuff out there in the world,” an insider shared. “He’s one of the leads on NCIS and has a huge following. Everything’s going so well.”
Valderrama’s friends insist the actor regrets his earlier antics and is focused on being a better person. “Wilmer probably regrets a lot of things he did in his younger years,” the insider added. “But to the women he burned and ratted on, he’ll always be dirt, and he’ll have to live with that.”
Balancing Redemption and Public Scrutiny
While Valderrama has made strides to leave his scandalous past behind, the road to redemption is not without challenges. His efforts to reshape his image coincide with a successful television career and philanthropic work. Whether his actions will be enough to win back public trust remains uncertain, but those close to him believe he’s on the right path.
“He’s a changed man now,” the source noted. “It’s clear he’s doing everything he can to move forward.”
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