Rod Stewart’s celebration at the 2025 American Music Awards turned sour after wife Penny Lancaster failed to show up for his big night — a move insiders say has ignited serious concern about their 14-year marriage.
The 80-year-old music legend was honored with a Lifetime Achievement Award in Los Angeles last month, with five of his children—Kimberly, Ruby, Renee, Sean and Liam—surprising him onstage in a heartwarming tribute. Yet fans and close friends were shocked to see Lancaster missing entirely from the televised event, despite always being present at his milestones.
Those closest to the couple are not staying quiet. One insider said Penny’s absence screamed trouble. Her decision to avoid the high-profile ceremony reportedly raised questions about their relationship behind the scenes.
She has always been a staple at these public moments. But skipping one this personal, without explanation, triggered alarm bells among fans and those in Stewart’s inner circle.
Rock star lifestyle pushing Stewart’s health to the edge
While Stewart emotionally embraced his children during the award ceremony, rumors swirled backstage that Lancaster may be distancing herself due to the singer’s refusal to abandon his decades-long rockstar habits.
Despite being 80, the Maggie May hitmaker continues to indulge in hard partying. Sources revealed he still demands a fully stocked mini bar on tour and downs booze before, during, and after performances. He confessed in an interview that his drink of choice before hitting the stage remains rum and Coke—something he’s done religiously for over 40 years.
He said post-show celebrations are now wilder than ever, complete with girls dancing in dressing rooms and a flowing supply of wine and spirits. According to Stewart, these parties are far better than the drug-heavy days of the past.
Family members are reportedly terrified that his lifestyle will lead to a sudden health crisis. One source close to the singer said loved ones are now discussing a private intervention, fearing he won’t make it through the year if the behavior continues.
They are considering at-home help since traditional rehab may not suit Stewart at his age. But they’re afraid the rock icon will laugh it off and continue pushing his body to the limit.
Children remain loyal but concerned
His children stood by him during the ceremony, even referring to him affectionately as “Papa Stew.” However, off-camera, concerns are growing. Insiders said they’ve witnessed firsthand how the aging rocker brushes off warnings, insisting he feels young and invincible.
Despite his 2021 vow to drink less, Stewart’s recent actions show otherwise. Insiders say his refusal to change is not just straining his health but also putting immense pressure on his marriage with Lancaster.
She has renewed vows with him in the past, but her absence this time left guests whispering that it might have been her way of signaling she’s had enough.

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