Country star Lainey Wilson is growing frustrated as longtime boyfriend and former NFL quarterback Devlin “Duck” Hodges continues to avoid popping the question, according to sources close to the couple.
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Wilson publicly calls out Hodges’ hesitation
The “Watermelon Moonshine” singer, 32, recently voiced her impatience during an appearance on a podcast hosted by Bunnie Xo, wife of her duet partner and friend Jelly Roll. When Bunnie expressed hope that Wilson would marry Hodges in 2025, the country star didn’t hold back.
“I might have to propose to HIM!” Wilson quipped.
However, sources insist that Wilson has no plans to actually take the lead. Friends say she firmly believes that proposing is Hodges’ responsibility—and she’s running out of patience waiting for him to step up.
A growing divide over marriage and fame
“For Lainey, it’s all about life planning,” an insider revealed. “She’s built her career to the level she’s always dreamed of, and now she feels it’s time to take the next step in her personal life.”
Hodges, 28, transitioned from football to real estate after his stint in the NFL. While he enjoys spending time with Wilson’s circle—including high-profile stars like Jelly Roll, Morgan Wallen, and Luke Combs—sources say he remains hesitant about stepping into the spotlight as Wilson’s husband.
“Duck is actually a pretty private guy—they didn’t even go public as a couple for two years,” said a source close to the couple. “He likes to lie low, and he knows there will be tremendous pressure on him if he becomes Mr. Lainey Wilson.”
The tension between Wilson’s rising fame and Hodges’ reluctance to embrace the limelight may be contributing to his hesitation. While the former quarterback enjoys their relationship as it is, Wilson appears ready for a bigger commitment.
Wilson may not wait forever
Sources say Wilson is trying to be patient, but friends believe she won’t hold out much longer if Hodges refuses to propose.
“It scares him,” the insider added. “But the truth is, Lainey could send him packing if he doesn’t step up soon.”
With Wilson’s star continuing to rise and pressure mounting from fans and friends, the ball is now in Hodges’ court. Whether he will take the next step or risk losing one of country music’s biggest names remains to be seen.

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