Ben Affleck might be back on the market, but insiders claim his personal habits are scaring off potential partners — and infuriating ex-wife Jennifer Garner.
The 52-year-old actor, who shares three children with Garner — Violet, 19, Fin, 16, and Samuel, 13 — has reportedly fallen back into some unhygienic routines. Sources close to the Batman star say his lack of cleanliness, chain-smoking, and sloppy behavior are becoming a major source of tension.
The buzz started after Affleck was photographed spitting on a public sidewalk while walking with his son in Los Angeles on March 16. The images reportedly reached Garner, who was furious. She told him that kind of behavior sets a bad example for their children and reflects poorly on him.
Smoking and sloppiness hurting his image
According to insiders, the incident is just one example of Affleck’s troubling habits. The actor is said to frequently skip showers after workouts and leave messes behind when visiting Garner’s home. Those habits, sources claim, are causing serious friction with Garner, who has moved on with her boyfriend, burger entrepreneur John Miller.
Despite previously promising to quit smoking, Affleck is still lighting up — and his ex reportedly finds it difficult to ignore. Sources say the smell of stale smoke clings to his hair, clothes, and fingers, making him hard to be around. Friends have also commented that his cigarette addiction is a major turn-off.
A source close to the situation said Affleck has a lot going for him, but these lingering habits are a red flag for any woman looking to date him seriously.
Jennifer Garner wants space and boundaries
As Affleck continues to lean on Garner for emotional support following his split from Jennifer Lopez in 2024, the dynamic has grown tense. Garner, 52, reportedly feels responsible for Affleck’s well-being but is growing frustrated with his reliance on her. Sources say Miller is also unhappy about the level of contact between the former spouses.
Insiders say Garner has made it clear she wants Affleck to take better care of himself — and move on romantically — so she can focus on her own relationship without drama.
Garner reportedly told Affleck he needs to stop showing up uninvited, respect her personal space, and start acting like an adult.
While Affleck remains a Hollywood A-lister, sources close to the actor admit he may struggle to attract a “quality woman” unless he turns things around. Until then, both his dating life and relationship with Garner hang in the balance.

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